Sunday, December 6, 2009

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."
- Albert Schweitzer


Winners Never Quit - Football


Well, I have been sick for almost a week and have completely run out of things to do except think. Which even thinking is a little fuzzy. I decided to try to work on my blog and came across this quote and started thinking. What brings me happiness and what might I be successful at. I am personally stuck and at a crossroads only the roads span in every direction. My finances are somewhat stable though not where I want them, I can't decide on a career and am currently trying to get into Grad school more in the hope of it giving me some direction than education. So, what does one do when they aren't sure what to do? For my life I really have two main goals, one to be a mom, and secondly to help the world. Aside from that the rest is just details. So here I am stuck, trying to figure out what to do in the interim. I have been trying to get a new job for the past 6 months but nothing seems to really be opening in that direction. You know, I need to help someone right now but I am not sure who or how and until I figure that out. I think I'm stuck here, just a little frustrated. :( Hmmm... maybe there is another door around the corner I just haven't found to open yet. Wish me luck :)

Monday, August 24, 2009

Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow.

Psalm 25:4
Grey and Gold, 1942


Saturday, July 25, 2009

The important thing is not to think much but to love much; and so do that which best stirs you to love.
- St. Teresa of Avila

Well, I went and saw The Ugly Truth today at the theaters. It was interesting.... I'm currently in the process of finalizing my divorce and so love, relationships and dating are all touchy subjects for me. I got married at eighteen during my second year of college and am now twenty-four and terrified, I suppose. I don't know how to date, and I'm not entirely convinced I want to but I do want love and a family. What scares me the most is when I watch "movies" the women, and perhaps the men, seem to be playing games. They don't seem to be real or themselves. Their decisions are based on another's response versus who they are and that scares me. What is it like dating as an adult? How do you date as an adult? These questions go round and round in my poor head. I wish I could leave it as movie dramatization but then I see how my roommate's friends are and the questions they ask each other about what to say and the "games" don't seem so far fetched. Thankfully or sadly, I don't think very highly of them so I will not be following in their footsteps but that doesn't exactly calm my mind. I guess that leaves me with this quote, I need to focus less on being loved and more on loving others. The rest will work itself out. :)


La Belle Dame sans Merci


Monday, June 29, 2009

Stubborn vs. Steadfast

Don't copy the behavior and customs

of this
world, but let God transform

you into a new
person by changing the

way you think. Then
you will learn to

know God's will for you,
which is

good and pleasing and perfect.


Romans 12:2

I had an epiphany the other day. I came to the realization that stubborn and steadfast are about the same thing just used in different context. A couple weeks ago I was listening to the radio and the lady was talking about her two year old who was acting stubborn. Apparently, the little girl hit her grandma and didn't want to say sorry. She was talking about how hard it was for her to get the girl to say sorry and how they prayed together until finally the girl came around. She was also commenting on how her daughter gets her stubbornness from her. This got me thinking.

While I was married to my husband, he used to call me stubborn. His parents would "bug" me about learning Spanish (his family was from Puerto Rico) and I was resistant (to say the least). I didn't care for the idea of someone telling me to learn something because they thought I should. I would learn when and if I wanted to, on my own time. Either way, he used to tell me I was stubborn.

Growing up I've always felt separate or different from many of my peers. I was never one to follow along with being boy crazy, into drinking or partying. And I'm still not. I have my standards (or values) and I choose to keep to them. This is what lead me to comparing my stubbornness with steadfastness. What I came to realize was the same force keeping me from "learning Spanish" was the same force that keeps me from compromising my values. Call it stubbornness or steadfastness, for me they are the same. They both represent my unwillingness to change to please other people and a firmness about who I am and try to be. I will most certainly fail on occasion but I will keep persevering until I am who I am.

I wish I could have realized this earlier while I was listening to the radio show. The strength of will her daughter was showing was really a blessing. What she needed to learn was how to help her daughter choose when her stubbornness was appropriate and when she need to give in and say sorry.



Tiananmen Square - BW

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

My token to Iran and their current turmoil... I wish them the best

A small body of determined spirits fired by an unquenchable faith in their mission can alter the course of history.

- Ghandi
I have been watching and keeping up to date with what is going on in Iran. I can't be there but know you are in my heart and I will pray for your safety while you fight.



Women Wearing Full Chador Outside the Sheik Lotfollah Mosque, Esfahan, Iran
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Monday, June 15, 2009

Choices

"...every individual has 2 choices


  1. Wait and hope that something or someone will provide the motivation needed to act, or

  2. Take control of your own dream and work to see it through."

-from The Disney Way pg. XIII


Dreaming Trees
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Saturday, June 13, 2009

"When values are clear, decisions are easy"

Roy Disney in The Disney Way pg. 37

Tinker Bell






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Friday, June 12, 2009

Cling to your faith in Christ, and keep your conscience clear. For some people have deliberately violated their consciences; as a result, their faith has been shipwrecked.

1 Timothy 1:19


Shipwreck on the Beach, Fuerteventura, Canary Islands, Spain, Atlantic

Thursday, June 11, 2009

"Living an inspired life supports your happiness and the happiness of all those who are touched by you."


- Marci Shimoff


Well, I have a story to tell. I do not consider myself a highly outgoing or overtly helpful person. It's not that I am mean but I am very shy and don't always feel comfortable putting myself out like that. The other day while I was driving home from my mom's house, I saw a dog walking down the middle of the road in the oncoming traffic lane. My first thought was "Aww poor doggy, I hope he doesn't get hurt." I kept driving but I felt like I needed to turn around and help the dog. I started thinking its owner might miss it and I should help the dog. Oh! I forgot to mention, meanwhile it is raining outside as well. :) I decided to follow my urge and turn around to go help the dog. While turning around, two cars passed me heading towards the dog and I was hopeful that they wouldn't hit it. After I turned around I noticed the dog was now on the sidewalk on the otherside of the road so I pull off.

Phase 1: Can I help the dog....

I am hesistant to approach it, for all I know I'm helping a vicious dog but I forge on. I kneal down (in the rain) and wait for the dog to come to me. It happily (I think) trots to me and I put my hand out for it to smell. The dog seems friendly so I pet it and help it into my back seat. I head back home thinking "well now what." I have succesffuly collected myself a stray dog, now what?

While I was petting it I had noticed it didn't have a collar. Well, I guess I won't be calling its owner. I took the doggy home and got it into my garage.


Phase 2, "What do I do now?"

It was an interesting process to get a leashless dog into my house. I let the dog outside and it immediately went in the opposite direction of the front door. Apparently, he decided to go exploring so I ended up chasing and calling him. He followed very well, which I was thankful for and we made it around the back of the house to the front door. From there he maded it into the garage and I got him some water.

Well, I do know they have started putting chips in the dogs that can be scanned to find the owners identification information so I thought well let's see if the owner had the chip installed. I look up vets in my iphone and it gives me Petco. I call them and they say they can't help. Well, thanks a lot phone. :) While looking through the veternarians listed I recognize the vet I used to take my dog to. I thought "I know them let's call and ask them." I call and explain my perculiar situation to the receptionist and she says I can bring the dog in and they can scan him.

Phase 3: How to get the dog in the car, hmm......

Now that I know where to take the doggy I have to figure out how to get it back in my car. Well, I used to have a dog so I run through my house looking for a leash. No luck. I don't have a clue what I did with the old leashes but they are no longer in my house. Hmmm. I decide to be resourceful and look for rope. Well, I know I don't keep rope but I do have a weakness for bags. Up in the spare bedroom I find one of those bags that have the strings you pull to tighten them (I don't know if they have a name) so I untie one of knots and pull the string out. Great found rope. Then I tie a know around the length of string to create a loop that I can slip around the doggy's head. I was quite surprised at my own resourcefulness, an unknown of ability. I go back downstairs and put my make shift leash around the dog's neck. I try to keep it semi-loose to not inadvertently choke the dog but it would tighten whenever the dog pulled. I successfuly manage to get the doggy back into my car. It was such a good dog. It would sit in the back seat politely and smile. I was loving it. I noticed the time and realized I have work in a few hours. As I hate being late I call my boss and leave here a message about me picking up a stray dog. I know she's going to think I'm crazy now. So at peace with work, wet dog in back seat and me, beginning to smell like wet dog, we head off to the vet.

Phase 4 No Way, I can't believe my luck

We arrive at the vet, it's still raining, and I get the dog back out of the car trying not to let it pull on the makeshift leash and choke. I go inside and thankfully no other clients are there. I tell the receptionist I called and have a stray dog. She says ok and walks away and out a back door. My next thought is "okay, well???" As she walks through the door I mention I don't have a leash and take my makeshift leash off the doggy. She comes back through the mysterious door and through a window in the entrance door to the rooms I notice a guy with a machine in his hand walking towards us and the lady. He comes out, puts a normal collar and leash on the dog and tries to scan the doggy. While I am awaiting the verdict the lady says "we know this dog." I'm like "What?!?" She's like yeah, he's a client of ours, what's his name? At this point I am stunned, to say the least, and the guy reports there is no chip. They agree to keep the dog there. Thank God, as I had no dog food or anything at home. I leave my contact information incase they need to get ahold of me or cannot find its owner. I tell them where I found the dog and ask to be kept up to date. Later that week they call to say the dogs owners have picked him up and the doggy is home. Apparently, the doggy's name was "Abbers." I get a call the next week from a lady thanking me for finding her dog. I told her I was happy to help and glad to be of service. So all in all a happy ending story and I now have a rep at work for picking up strays. :) Oh well, life is a beautiful thing. :)

Portrait of a Black Labrador Dog


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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

You Can Choose Your Attitude...

...that everything can be taken from a

man but one thing: the last of the

human freedoms-- to choose one's

attitude in any given set of

circumstances, to c
hoose one's own

way.


-- Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Building Customer Relations...

"Walt Disney insisted that every employee is the company in the mind of the customer."

- from The Disney Way pg. 3





Monday, March 23, 2009

Time, Persistance and Commitment are the keys to long-term benefits.
-- from The Disney Way pg.30



Saturday, March 21, 2009

Two Tibetan monks meet each other a

few years after being released from

prison, where they had been tortured

by their jailers.


"Have you forgiven them?" asks

the first.


"I will never forgive them!

Never!
" replies the second.


"Well," says the first monk, "I

guess they
still have
you in

prison, don't they?
"


To make the quickest progress, you don't have

to take huge leaps. You just have to take baby

steps -- and keep on taking them.


- Marci Shimoff

Thursday, March 12, 2009

"Our deepest fear is not that we are

inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are

powerful beyond measure. It is our light not

our darkness that frightens us. Actually,

who are you not to be? You are a child

of God. Your playing small doesn't

serve the world. There's nothing

enlightened about shrinkingso that

other people won't feel insecure

around you. We were born to make

manifest the glory of God that is

within us."


-Nelson Mandela, inaugural address, written by Marianne Williamson

I feel this is so true and inspiring.


Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Whoever is happy will make others happy, too.

- Mark Twain




Friday, March 6, 2009

Forgive Someone Today...

To forgive is the highest, most beautiful

form of love. In return, you will receive

untold peace and happiness.


- Robert Muller